Ways to Use a Dildo?

A dildo is a phallic sex toy that is used for sexual stimulation during penetration of the vagina or anus.

Here are the ways to use them:

• To pleasure oneself
• To aid in erectile issues for men and people with penises
• To make your existing penis longer or thicker
• To use in gender-bending or gender affirmation
• For strap-on play, pegging or double penetration
• To assist in hitting hard to reach spots like the prostate, G spot or cervix

Who Uses a Dildo?

Lots of people, regardless of gender or sexual orientation enjoy using a faux penis for pleasure, whether you are solo, coupled, male, female, hetero, LGBTQ+ or anywhere in between.

How to Use a Dildo for Masturbation

Dildos and masturbation go together like peanut butter and jam. They are a great way to explore solo penetration on your own, to find out what you like and what turns you on.

Before you get a new dong, things to consider are: shape, size, material, style and purpose.

For novices, we recommend using a small beginner dildo. Use lots of lube, as dildos can be drying.

Get aroused first, go slow, and ease into penetration.

What is the Best Dildo for Women?

There is no one best sex toy for all women. Anyone can use a penetrative sex toy, regardless of gender.

The type of toy an individual will like best, depends on the purpose, erogenous zone and personal preference.

What is a Couple Dildo?

Dongs made for couples allow partners to try out penetration if they were not born with a penis, or to extend the use of their own. The most popular is a strap-on used for pegging. A Clone-A-Willy Moulding Kit is also a fun alternative for couples as well.

How to Use a Dildo with Your Partner?

Be sure to have the conversation first on how you want to use the toy, and where.

Respect each other’s boundaries. The giver should always be following the directions of the receiver: faster, slower, harder, softer, or stop!

Start with lots of before-play, use a body-friendly water-based lube, go slow, communicate, and enjoy the ride!

Is There Such a Thing as a Dildo for Men?

Yes! Lots of guys enjoy penetration of the anus with a prostate dildo. The prostate is loaded with lots of sexy nerve endings, making prostate play very orgasmic.

Penis extenders are also great to aid in penetration, increase length or volume.

How to use a Dildo for Men?

Penis sleeves (aka penis extenders) are a fun way for men to extend the performance of their penis. Penis sleeves aid in erectile dysfunction, helping him last longer. Some have extra texture for more pleasure.

To use: First, measure your penis to choose the right size. Add lube to the head of a slightly erect penis. Slip it on. Make sure it is comfortable and secure. Lube it up and use as desired.

How to Use A Prostate Dildo?

Using a prostate massager depends on the type of stimulator you are using. If you are using a solo toy, apply lube and slowly insert. Prostate massagers are designed with a specific angle that allows you to use your internal muscles to rock the toy inside of you, thus stimulating the P-spot.

If you are using the toy for pegging (female to male anal penetration), first find a toy that suits your needs. See our Pegging Guide for more ideas.

She should use her fingers first to warm him up and also to feel how the anus is curved, so she can get the correct angle during penetration. Many couples enjoy doggy style for pegging, but other positions work well too. Do what feels good and follow the steps below on how to use a dildo for anal.

How to Use a Dildo for Anal?

Solo: Start with some sexy foreplay and fingering first to get your butt ready for penetration. Try a smaller toy to begin with, and make sure your toy has a flared base for easy retrieval.

For couples: The bottom should control the depth and speed of penetration.

For Everyone: Use lots of lube! Relax, and slowly penetrate the anus a little at a time (a little can feel like A LOT!). Once the anus is fully penetrated, you can begin slowly thrusting to build up pleasure. Or for butt plug, leave in for anal training.

How to Correctly Use a Dildo for Various Types of Play

Here are links to our quick and dirty guides for all your dildo questions.

How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo

See our suction cup dildo guide.

How to Use Double Ended Dildo

Our complete guide is here: How to Use A Double-Ended Dildo.

How to Use Inflatable Dildo

Inflatable dongs are used for anal training or to slowly stretch the vagina or anus to accommodate more girth and length. Many couples enjoy this in BDSM types of sex. Our selection of inflatable dongs are here.

How to Use a Big Dildo

Yes, we have a guide for that too.

How to Use a Squirting Dildo

Great for ejaculation fantasies. Check them out here.

How to Use a Glass Dildo

Find out all about glass dildos in our sexy guide.

That’s all Folks!

That’s it for our amazing guide on how to use a dildo. Check out our huge assortment of dildos right here!